Friday, December 9, 2016
More answers to questions asked
I wrote a recent blog entry responding to questions. It received a lot of views, and apparently inspired people to ask me what they had brewing in their minds. So here are more answers to many questions from readers and friends and twitter followers.
1) What did you think bout that election? (Asked by many folks)
So, sadly, I stayed home. I could not bring myself to vote. I believe in voting, I registered, but, when I got sick, I realized, I'd be going in to do something that didn't matter due to the system, 3rd party candidates cannot win, votes in Minnesota will be Democrat, thus the electoral college will be against anything I do, and there was a good chance of me crapping myself due to the constant gut issues I have and was dealing with. It sucks. If you love Clinton, by all means feel bad. If you loved Trump, hey way to go. What I read with the wikileaks and my frustration over the treatment of Bernie Sanders meant to me that I was not who this election was aimed at anyway.
2) What in God's name do you mean, you don't regret various romantic inquiries, aren't you supposed to love your wife and no others? (Asked by a Born Again Christian woman who has had a long online history of writing to me when she believes she has detected evidence that I am morally flawed)
Well, no, I don't regret anything I did, because I didn't do anything. I received interest from various people, due to my work, and that is it. Due to the fact that I am a poet people seem to assume that I am a fruity nancy boy, or some sort of Don Juan. I emotionally understand love. My poems reflect that. But I am not, by any means, in pursuit of anything or anyone outside of my vows. I joke that my wife scares me, but what really scares me is eternal condemnation and loss of all I love.
3) What do you read for pleasure, not reviews, not research, not bath room reading? (Asked by a lovely friend from Facebook.)
I do love reading poetry. I love the works of Albert Camus. I love reading about military events. I like a lot of different genres, formats and subjects.
4) Where would you most like to visit outside of your home state? (Asked by a good friend, on Twitter).
Japan, Greece, Italy and, if I am forced to choose, I have to choose the Baltics, Sweden, Norway, Finland, and Ukraine. For reasons I don't altogether know. I think my ancestors must have walked there.
5) What is your favorite food? (Asked by a friend who thinks I am insane, on Twitter)
Sushi. Sushi, and more sushi. Mostly when shared with my wife Beth and son.
6) Shower or Bath? How often do you like to bathe or shower? (Asked by a very lovely lady from Texas).
Bath. Almost every night, often with my cat Katya walking along the edge, putting her feet in the water, and jumping on and off my chest. It becomes a hoot when bubble bath is added. She hasn't figured out what those bubbles are yet.
7) Why do you not have a Patreon page? (Asked by people whenever I sell books or my books in deals and announce them on Twitter or Facebook.)
I hate it. It seems like begging. The same for Kickstarter. It is that simple for me.
8) How can you believe in God but not UFOs, Loch Ness Monsters, or Bigfoot? (Asked by a person who had read my Sasquatch story in Josh Howard Presents Sasquatch, and asked a buttload of questions about my beliefs regarding Cryptids and odd events.)
I don't DISbelieve in those things, but I consider belief to be an active thing. I know from experiences that I've met and know something I consider God. It is more than a thought, or a firm belief, it is active, I believe, not possess a belief. I think UFOs probably exist, but most are natural or normal things mistaken for others, unknown technologies that we are not supposed to know, or in a very few tiny tiny amount of cases, something really different probably on the level of UFOs and aliens happen. I don't really worry about them, if they exist, they'll let us know.
I do think Bigfoot has some authenticity regarding the issue of primates and evolution. They would seem to be ancient and intelligent, and if they exist damn right they want to be hidden. We'd turn em into fur coats, eat them, or display them in museums or carnivals. Or elect them president.
Loch Ness monster might itself not exist, but I think there are a ton of things in the oceans we have yet to experience. Maybe they are giant eels, or sea snakes, maybe not. But I fear sharks so there is no way I am going swimming to find out.
9) We know you adore your son, what do you and he do? (Asked by a gorgeous friend on Facebook).
He and I collect comics and books and movies, we listen to screamo, metal, alt rock, and punk. He and I love a variety of anime and sci fi movies. We eat sushi. We talk about women. And, we used to play hockey on xbox. He was so good he got bored with that. So I taught him to play another game. I taught him first edition Advanced Dungeons and Dragons. I did it because it is an exercise in creative collaborative story telling, and sometimes it takes a while to find the right group to play with. In my experience one asshole is one asshole too many. So I wanted him to experience fun with intelligent friends. And my best friend Russ adventures along with us.